My Baby Boy

So I just found my baby boy's ultrasound pics in my e mail so I thought I would share! My son may one day hate me for it! ;)

SUPRISE

Ember is PLEASED to announce that she will be a

BIG SISTER!!!

August 2011 a new baby Nilsson will join our family!

and the best part is that,

Its a BOY!!!

Top Five Things Every Woman Should Know

There are lots of things every woman should know how to do. But I am going to make a list of my top 5.

1. Know How To Change A Flat Tire. If you don't know how, LEARN.

2. Make Sure You Have Your Jack IN Your Trunk To Change The FLAT Tire. Without this your just SOL.

3. Know How To Pay A Bill. Try to have 1 bill in your name so you know how to do this. There will be a time this knowledge will pay off.

4. Have common sense. SERIOUSLY.

5. Teach Your Kids Common Sense And Teach Them The Things You Need To Know In Life. That way when the time comes they are prepared and do not have to call you to figure out what the difference between a deposit and process fee is.

POST EDIT: AFTER LOOKING AT OTHER BLOGS AND THINKING ABOUT IT I HAVE A SIXTH AND SEVENTH THING EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW:

Know how to change the oil in your car. This comes with an exception though, if you have one of those newer expensive cars and makes it impossible and the professionals have to it I understand.

Know how to at least kind of know how to drive a stick shift car. I REALLY REALLY REALLY suck at driving a stick shift but can manage if the ocassion calls for it. I am SOOOO thankful my dad attempted to teach me at 14 or 15 years old in his old Datson truck!

So end of story, if you don't know how to. LEARN.

Ember is a hair dresser.

She did my hair and then Jeffers hair.

She got the chair, coffee table, and "cape" all by herself.

Oh and her fingers are her scissors and then she would brush our hair then she would get

paintbrushes and "paint" our hair. She is too cute!

I love her!

So I know I love when people update their blogs with pictures so that is what I've done!

Picture above is of Embers at WalMart driving the Barbie Jeep in the store

Picture below is of her in the horse in the entrance of WalMart she loved it, it was funny!

Picture below is on Christmas morning, Ember is in one of her princess dress ups, Jeffers in the background playing his new X Box.

Picture below is of Ember's haul from Santa, I'd say she did pretty good!

We had a good Christmas and New Year! Ember is getting so big it blows me away! She can talk so well and loves to play with her friends, cousins, and her "unk" (my little bro, Dalton) of course. She is such a loving little girl too. She will give me lots of kisses and hugs. Sh eloves to play "monsters" with her daddy. Lately she has been telling me she wants to go sailing. Not sure where she heard that but it makes me want to buy a sailing boat. She is such a smart girl! I love her sooo much!

Here is a funny story, when we went grocery shopping we bought some oranges. I keep them on the counter. Well they were on the counter for about 1 day and then they disappeared. I thought Jeffers had stuck them in the fridge like in the crisper. Then on Saturday Jeffers asked me where they were. I told him I had no idea and i thought he had put them in the fridge. So he asked Ember, she said they were under my bed... ??? I asked her to show me. She took me to the front of my bed and and lifted the bed skirt up and there they were. 4 oranges just chillin.

still not sure why she put them there, but I couldn't be mad because it was just tooo funny!

Thanksgiving

In the middle of this month I wasn't so sure I'd be up to celebrating Thanksgiving.

I had imagined I would be saying how thankful I was for certain things that should have happened.

But they didn't.

And I was upset about it at this said time.

Jeffers would tell me to be thankful and happy for what we do have but I still kind of felt cheated out of what I should have had.

Don't get me wrong, I am SOOO thankful and feel SOOOO blessed for what I do have, an amazing husband, daughter, family, friends, a beautiful home, and countless other blessings.

Well I dwelled on it for a couple days and that is what I needed.

I am now at peace.

I know everything happens for a reason, and that is all I need to know.

First off, I am SOOOOOOO thankful and blesses to have such an angel for a daughter. I still can't figure out why she picked me to be her mom. But I am SOOO glad she did. Emberlyn is the most beautiful little girl I know. She is so sweet and nice, she loves her friends at daycare and loves to play with them. She has manners, she is so smart. She has this little funny personality, she loves to joke with us. It is the cutest thing I have ever seen! I honestly don't know what I would do without her. She has changed my life in so many ways I can't even begin to explain.

I love being a mother.

Emberlyn, thank you for being the best baby girl I could have ever asked for, you make my life soooooo beautiful every single day.

Second, my husband. He is my rock. He is such a good daddy. He loves his daughter and I more than I know. He is such a hard worker and is so good at what he does. I love being with him. I love hanging out and watching Jazz games with him. He takes care of our family so well. He will make pancakes for Ember any morning she asks for them. He will make her mickey mouse pancakes too! He loves to joke around with me. He makes sure we are safe. He will work countless overtime hours to make sure we have enough money to pay our bills. I love him sooo much!!!

He is my soulmate.

Thank you baby for being there for me and for being such an amazing husband and father.

Third, my family. All I can say is I don't know what I would do without them. They are always there for me and my family. I love them soooo much! I love hanging out with them!

Thank you family, I love you soooo much!!!!!!!!!!

My in-laws, if it wasn't for them I wouldn't be in my beautiful home. They have helped us countless times with things we need. They are some of the most amazing people I know. I am so LUCKY and BLESSED to have them as my in laws. I really don't know what I would do without them, they have ALWAYS been there for us and I want to thank them for it. I love you guys so much!

My cousin, Amanda, seriously one of my best friends! She is always there for me when I need her. We get eachother. She will make me laugh until I'm crying. I don't laugh that hard with anyone else. Our daughters love to play together! I hope they always stay as close and Amanda and I! I love you girly! Thank you for always being there and making me laugh!

My co workers, my work family, I love you guys! Thank you for being sooo awesome and fun to be around!

My friends, I LOVE my friends! I LOVE getting together with my friends! We always have fun when were together! Thank you for always being there for me and my family!

All of my sister-in-laws, brother-in-laws, and neices and nephews.

You guys are such an amazing family I was blessed to become a part of. I learn so much from you guys. I can't even believe how lucky I am to have you guys in my life. I feel like I have all of these older sisters and brothers I never had. And 1 younger brother too! :) You guys are such good examples to me and I always love being around you guys and ur families. Thank you for being amazing!

I am now full of so much thanks. Thanks for all I have, I am such a lucky person to have all of these wonderful and amazing people in my life. I can't believe how amazing my life truely is.

When it comes down to it. It can be hard without a lot of money and things, but as long as we are happy that is what counts. Quality is ALWAYS better than quanity in my eyes. If my quality of life is amazing and I don't have a lot of money I am just fine with that!!!

As long as I have these amazing and beautiful people in my life I am happy.

Happy Thanksgiving!

TALKIN ABOUT LOTS OF STUFF

I haven't posted in forever, like I always do. So I thought I would! Things with the house are going AWESOME. I LOVE having my own home. I LOVE being able to call it my own! I want to go all out with Christmas lights but we will see if it really happens, I have a feeling our power bill would go way up!

I have been sick lately and it SUCKS, its the cold that won't go away! We did get family pictures and they ROCK!!!!! Julie is too awesome and sweet! She take UHMAZING pictures. Check em out!!